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Uncertainty Breeds Change: Why Discomfort Is Your Greatest Teacher
Staying stuck in a situation you know isn't serving you doesn't protect you from discomfort--it just guarantees you'll feel it indefinitely.    Read more...
Knowledge vs. Wisdom
Here's what I've come to realize: wisdom and knowledge aren't separate paths--they're deeply interconnected. The more we learn and understand about people, situations, and ourselves, the better equipped we become to accept certain realities and release what no longer serves us.   Read more...
Live For Purpose, Not For Praise
Take the time to figure out what it is that you're passionate about. It may be a few different things, but figuring that out will help you determine your purpose.    Read more...
Focus On Improvements Before You Demand Better Results
The more you improve, the better your results will naturally become. It's not instantaneous, but it's inevitable. Read more...
Stop Being Who You Were And Become Who You Are
Listen here. Ouch. I'm sure that title might have stung a bit for some of you -- and that's completely understandable -- because honestly, I felt it too.   A Year of Self-Evaluation As we draw closer to the end of the year, I've been doing a lot of self-evaluation on all fronts. Just personally with myself and the things that I've accomplished this year, things I haven't accomplished, and just overall areas I need to improve on going forward. With that, I have also been doing a lot of... Read more...
Gratitude As Your Default Setting
When gratitude becomes your default setting, life changes. Not because your circumstances magically transform overnight, but because you transform how you experience those circumstances. You start seeing abundance where you once saw lack. You find opportunities where you once saw obligations. You recognize progress where you once only saw the distance left to travel.  Read more...
Our Minds Distort Our Mirrors
How to break free from overthinking by changing our thoughts and disrupting our current thought patterns! Read more...
Focus On What You Have: The Power of Gratitude in Building Your Future
While you're building toward your future, remember: focus on what you have, because that's where you will start.  You have everything you need right now to take the first step. The question isn't whether you're ready. The question is whether you're willing to begin.  Read more...
Start Where You Are, Even If It's Not Perfect
Start where you are, even if it's not perfect. Because done is better than perfect, and starting imperfectly is better than never starting at all. Read more...
Keep Beginning
Keep beginning, as many times as you need until you reach your dreams. Your story isn't over yet. It's just getting started!   Read more...
Stop Getting In Your Own Way
Here's my unconventional advice: You want to start with the scariest tasks. If you take on the scariest thing first, everything you have to do after that will seem like a piece of cake! Read more...
Ambition Without Action Becomes Anxiety
Your actions don't need to be grand gestures. Small daily steps toward your biggest goals are just as valid and often more sustainable. It doesn't matter how fast you get there--what matters is the journey, the lessons you learn, and how your craft develops along the way. Read more...